Is there anything I can do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2008
Is there anything I can do?
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Sun, 06-29-2008 - 12:03pm

Hello,


iVillage Member
Registered: 05-24-2008
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 1:03pm

If he's texting a woman about getting naked with her...he does have some nerve condemning you for a phone call.


It sounds like the two of you are breaking apart emotionally and he sounds like he may be suspicious of your male friendships so it gives him license to do inappropriate things himself.


He could also be testing you to see if you love him no matter what..pushing you away...then pulling you back. Very destructive.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Sun, 06-29-2008 - 1:24pm

"he shoves me and threatens to hit me... he plays these games all the time, ....(he does have a coworker that I think he's involved in, he's texted her many times talking about her being naked "


Why are you still with him? Run for the hills.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2008
Mon, 06-30-2008 - 5:11pm

I know he's controlling, and between the two of us, we've been making a lot of progress, I think this time he just wanted to have something on me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 07-01-2008 - 12:06pm

Welcome to the board dreamingmckenzie,


Why do you still want to be with him if you think he is cheating, he threatens to divorce you all the time, shoves you, and says he will hit you. You deserve to be treated better than this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2008
Thu, 07-03-2008 - 10:53pm

Thank you for your welcoming greeting...sorry I haven't had a chance with long days at work to login...


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 1:30pm

Welcome to the board dreamingmckenzie,


You could really leave and file for that divorce.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
Fri, 07-04-2008 - 5:24pm

Z
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-13-2008
Sat, 07-05-2008 - 1:53am

It's never been anything I've ever done that's caused him this trust issue....it's a previous relationship that he's had with another woman over 4 years ago who cheated on him & took a lot of money from his account when he was deployed.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-04-2008
Sat, 07-05-2008 - 11:31am

Z
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 07-05-2008 - 1:23pm

Welcome to the board dreamergirl1985,


Relationships shouldn't be hard work, but they do require effort.