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| Fri, 07-04-2008 - 6:37pm |
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now. Not too long, however from the beginning we were pretty serious about each other.. We just "click".. My bf has a year and a half lil girl whom I adore as well..
We have a pretty good relationship we both care for and respect each other. Now heres my little dilemma... My boyfriends ex girlfriend (lets call her Sarah).. Sarah and I have never met.. which I'm okay with considering we've only been dating for 6 months.. However, my first question is.. when is a good time for us to meet? A couple more months? A year? My second question is.. is it bad that she doesnt already know about me? I understand the situation is complicated.. I told my boyfriend that honesty is always better.. but he feels that if he tells her, she may make it harder for him to see his daughter..
My other little dilemma.. Todays the fourth and I asked him if we'd watch the fireworks together.. He said his mom invited Sarah and her mom over to watch the fireworks.. I'm confused about that.. His mom has met me and she knows we are dating.. My boyfriend makes it seem like Sarah isnt a good person and they do not really have a relationship besides his daughter and what affects her.. However, why is she spending the fourth with them? My boyfriend said that he wants to hang out after but I dont know if I should.. I dont want to just be there at the very end of the night (after everyone goes home).. Sometimes I feel like I'm sneaking around because of her, and I dont like it.. So i dont know if this should bother me as much as it does.. I just feel left out I guess.. I want everything to work between us, however I'm scared that it may be like this for awhile (where holidays are always spent with the ex and not me).. What should I do?
We have a pretty good relationship we both care for and respect each other. Now heres my little dilemma... My boyfriends ex girlfriend (lets call her Sarah).. Sarah and I have never met.. which I'm okay with considering we've only been dating for 6 months.. However, my first question is.. when is a good time for us to meet? A couple more months? A year? My second question is.. is it bad that she doesnt already know about me? I understand the situation is complicated.. I told my boyfriend that honesty is always better.. but he feels that if he tells her, she may make it harder for him to see his daughter..
My other little dilemma.. Todays the fourth and I asked him if we'd watch the fireworks together.. He said his mom invited Sarah and her mom over to watch the fireworks.. I'm confused about that.. His mom has met me and she knows we are dating.. My boyfriend makes it seem like Sarah isnt a good person and they do not really have a relationship besides his daughter and what affects her.. However, why is she spending the fourth with them? My boyfriend said that he wants to hang out after but I dont know if I should.. I dont want to just be there at the very end of the night (after everyone goes home).. Sometimes I feel like I'm sneaking around because of her, and I dont like it.. So i dont know if this should bother me as much as it does.. I just feel left out I guess.. I want everything to work between us, however I'm scared that it may be like this for awhile (where holidays are always spent with the ex and not me).. What should I do?

Welcome to the board hmmm25,
Sounds like his mother wants to see her granddaughter, which is normal.