I really need some advice!

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2006
I really need some advice!
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Tue, 07-08-2008 - 5:06pm

Hi everyone, I have a complicated problem that I really need advice on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 5:52pm

I agree that it makes more sense to move. North Carolina (I guess it depends where) is still driving distance from NJ. Plus he will be closer to his FL relatives. This may sound sexist, but as the female in the relationship I think you should have your mother around when you are caring for a newborn if that's what you want.

Perhaps you two can come up with a list of pros and cons together and see what wins out. Honestly I can't see ANY reason NOT to move now. Good luck on your decision, I hope he takes your side.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 8:31pm

Welcome to the board victoriah624,


I wonder if he's hoping that the baby he has with you will make a diffeence with his family?


I hope you can have a discussion about the pros and cons.





angels

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-09-2006
Tue, 07-08-2008 - 8:52pm

We have talked about this many times, and I don't think that he thinks the baby will really make a difference about how his family is.