Relationship Problem

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Registered: 07-09-2008
Relationship Problem
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Wed, 07-09-2008 - 3:04am
I'm confused with my relationship now...this is my first love and we were together for 7 years already..but i never expected he will do this to me..he cheated on me and it take a week for him to confessed to me...plus he go to meet that girl and apologize to the girl that he cannot be with the girl anymore..because he love so much and want to have a future with me...but 2 months ago..when I was browsing to his mobile phone...i was so surprise to see one of this text by a girl name 'Angel'...and the text content is really hurt me a lot..that girl called my boyfriend 'Dear'...i as so mad..i ask my boyfriend about this matter and he said to me he only replied that text..that all..I cried and i told my boyfriend that if you still want to keep in touch with her..you better make up your mind to choose either me or her..my boyfriend replied to me...that I'm the girl that he love and want to live the rest of his life me..he even propose to me...but my answer is still on hold because I'm not so sure..but i give him another chance to prove to me that he is with me,,but suddenly this recent Sunday 06/07/08...i was clearing his bag because i saw few unused paper that he should throw but he still keep inside his bag..never cross on my mind i will saw this thing which is the girl photos inside his wallet beside my photo..what is on his mind to keep that girl photo inside his wallet and that photos was cut out from a 3R size photo..i was really pissed this time..i don't even talk to him for few hours and he came to me..hugs me and said I'm sorry honey..its not like what you think..i just keep that photo temporary on my wallet..then i ask him back..for what reason you want to keep it...i thought you want to forget about her..why?then he could's answer me..he just said to me..its up to
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 11:35am

It sounds to me as though your boyfriend may have an addiction to be with other women.

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 11:39am
Some red flags - he didnt change his phone number and has a picture of her in his wallet.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 11:41am

Welcome to the board butterflylover.bee,


"he just said to me..its up to

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 1:12pm

Welcome to the board butterflylover.bee,


I want to start a free 'women's self-esteem' seminar.

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Registered: 07-09-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 9:13pm

Thank you for you advice...i appreciate it very much...i think i know what i should do with my relationship...thank ya

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Registered: 07-09-2008
Wed, 07-09-2008 - 9:29pm

Thank for you replied...yup..he didnt change his phone number