I am high maintenance!

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Registered: 12-28-2007
I am high maintenance!
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Fri, 07-11-2008 - 10:01pm

I came on this board...because I swear I am retarted and I don't think I come on this board so much, so maybe the people here aren't sick of me whining yet...so I have to whine.


Me and b/f are going thru alot of changes.


I have out of control kids (my kids and one of my sons has his pregnant girlfriend living here).


And my b/f just got told he they are selling his house he has to move.

Missy
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Registered: 12-11-2006
Sat, 07-12-2008 - 11:59am

'he says to me "you are one of the best things that has ever happened to me".

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 07-12-2008 - 1:05pm

Hi misssy2,


Here's your previous posts from this board to help others catch up on your situation:


Not really a problem, but a situation


I am the problem!


Reading material to consider:


Codependent No More, Melody Beattie


Loving Him without Losing You: How to Stop Disappearing and Start Being Yourself by Beverly Engel


Loving Men More, Needing Men Less, by Judith Sills


iVillage Member
Registered: 02-20-2007
Sat, 07-12-2008 - 6:38pm

Sorry misssy but you took what was really an incredibly sweet statement and turned it into a punishment. Men really want these things to be appreciated because it takes a lot of trust to be able to say them.

It sounds to me as though you are intentionally (though perhaps subconsciously) giving him a hard time. If I were you I'd do some reading and research into the idea of self-sabotage in a relationship. That may be a big possibility.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
Sat, 07-12-2008 - 9:34pm

That was pretty freaky to see my past posts!


But, I thank you Carrie and everyone who responded.

Missy