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| Tue, 07-15-2008 - 12:03am |
I recently discovered that my husband was having an affair for almost a year. It was over when I found out because the OW had moved. Anyway, he has apologized over and over and seems genuinely sorry, so I'm struggling to get over this so we can save our marriage. I found out about the affair because the OW sent a letter to my DH through the mail telling him that she hated him because he had kissed two other girls and she couldn't believe he was that shallow. (Of course he was - she knew he was married!) The two other girls happened because he was drunk, according to him. Anyway, he can't give me a good reason for having an affair with this girl, or with kissing the other 2. I didn't even know that he considered the OW


Welcome to the board Nicole,
So he has basically cheated on you with at least three women that you know of. Why do you want to continue in the marriage?
I think if the marriage is going to work you will need marriage counseling. I think sex can just be sex for a lot of people, but I don't know that I buy his story.
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Welcome to the board gabriels_mom2006,.
If you are going to continue in your marriage, I highly recommend counseling. Most couple's cannot overcome betrayal and rebuild trust on their own.