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| Sat, 07-19-2008 - 10:33pm |
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Edited 7/21/2008 10:03 am ET by lightray7777
Edited 7/21/2008 10:03 am ET by lightray7777

Welcome to the board lightray777,
Sounds like you are exclusive but not dating at all.
You mentioned you were good friends for a year prior to dating. Has his personality changed since then, or has he always treated you like this? Or, now that you're dating has he become 'comfortable' and lazy?
As a 'good friend' you must have learned about him and his ways. If he's changed drastically I think you need to talk about your relationship expectations. Perhaps now that you're dating you're expectations of him have gone up and he doesn't sound comfortable with it.