He's not "in love" anymore

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Registered: 07-21-2008
He's not "in love" anymore
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Mon, 07-21-2008 - 3:40pm

My husband has recently informed me that he loves me and will do anything for me, but he is no longer "in love" with me.

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Registered: 03-06-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 5:58pm
This is what cheating spouses often say - I would really look to see if your husband is cheating
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Registered: 07-21-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 6:16pm
I would think the same thing, except for the fact that we work for the same company and I make his schedule on a daily basis.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 6:18pm

Welcome to the board angelvtaylor,


Is he willing to try to get back those feelings? Is he willing to put in the effort?

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Registered: 07-21-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 6:32pm

He said he is willing to try and he said he is even willing to go to counseling, which is a HUGE step for him.

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Registered: 05-24-2008
Mon, 07-21-2008 - 11:45pm

just my 2 cents...but when a man says he is no longer "in love" it could mean that

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Registered: 03-06-2008
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 4:27am

Men tend to think that besides the social calendar and the kids and the housekeeping and the cooking...women are responsible for the couple's sex life too.

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Registered: 02-20-2007
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 7:32am
That's extremely false and bitter.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 12:59pm

We men don't think all women are idiots


Nor do I as a woman

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Registered: 01-12-2005
Tue, 07-22-2008 - 2:17pm

Although I hate to admit it, I think there is a salt-grain of truth in what ragingangel is saying in this particular post.

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Tue, 07-22-2008 - 2:38pm

I just finished reading the latest Mars/Venus book--called Why Mars & Venus Collide.

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