Should I stay or should I go???

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-14-2008
Should I stay or should I go???
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Fri, 11-14-2008 - 4:12pm

So much has happened over ten years I am not sure where to begin or even how to explain what I need to be understood.


At the age of 18 I met my husband and now have 2 wonderful girls, but I am not sure if I confused with what I should be feeling pr about what love is or am I just not truly in love at all.


Things I want in life, from goals and my relationship are more than different from him.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 11-14-2008 - 8:57pm

Welcome to the board nmalczew,


You have a lot to deal with. Cheating is a big thing to most people and it can do irrepairable damage to a marriage.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 11-16-2008 - 3:49pm

Nmaldczew, I'm wondering if your husband knows that you are on the edge of leaving. If not, perhaps it could be the wakeup call he needs? (this is assuming that you haven't threatened to leave in the past)

If he doesn't know how you feel, then tell him. And if he doesn't want to loose you, insist on some marriage counselling. Get all these issues sorted out.