My life just turned into a soap opera

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Registered: 11-15-2008
My life just turned into a soap opera
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Sat, 11-15-2008 - 5:59pm

Hi all, I need advice..frankly I'm to numb to think


Background: My BF (we'll call him B) is 40 and I'm 37. He has 3 kids and I have 1.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 7:21pm

Welcome to the board offsides1971,


My best advice (probably hard to take) is to take yourself out of the equation.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 7:35pm

Oh, my gosh, you poor thing.

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Registered: 11-15-2008
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 7:38pm

You're right Carrie, I didn't even think about the papers being mailed to your house, mine were to. Of course, my guess is he never thought about it either and even admitted this morning how completely naive he is.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 11-15-2008 - 7:46pm

::I know he's looking at this from the point of view that he has three kids.