Fed-up, with myself

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Registered: 05-03-2005
Fed-up, with myself
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Mon, 11-17-2008 - 9:31pm

Here is my fustration.


A few years ago, I met someone.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 1:58am

Even with all of the words you typed it amounts to nothing between you and this guy.

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Registered: 04-25-2008
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:07am

He didnt string you along,made no false promises to you.What you are seeking is revenge,thats what it sounds from your post.How will that help?

"but because of the way I feel about him," How do you feel about him?what you feel about him,according to this post is all 'hatred,jealous and seeking revenge'just because he refused a kiss! he was right to refuse as he was dating someone else.

if he is not interested in you, then? That would hurt again.Everyone gets rejected all the time.Maybe you both were not meant to be.

when you know that he is seeking attention,dont give him any.simple as it is and give to someone how would reciprocrate it.

Is he with the same girl?
I would suggest that you move on from him,dont seek him out for revenge,it will come back to haunt you.If you want to conquer him,conquer by love ,not with bitterness.Better still, leave him alone.

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Registered: 08-31-2004
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 4:46am

If I understand your post correctly, this man has a girlfriend, refused your kiss and has pretty much done nothing to indicate that he is at all interested in a relationship with you.

What do you imagine is between the two of you? As far as I can tell, there's nothing there.

baby siggy
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Registered: 10-03-2007
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 7:39am

I dont understand how this makes a R and how 'what i feel' will ruin it ! You are not in a R with him.He has a gf.

Leave him alone and seek therapy before you harm him and repent later!

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 2:09pm

Welcome to the board toasty95,.


Have you seen Gone with the Wind?

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Registered: 05-03-2005
Tue, 11-18-2008 - 9:45pm

You know what?
Now that I'm thinking about it, maybe I'm trying to protect myself.


Years and years back, I had a similar work relationship with a guy (who already had an underage