I need advice....please

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-20-2008
I need advice....please
3
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 9:18pm

Hi there, this is the first time I have written in to an on line advice column.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
Thu, 11-20-2008 - 9:58pm

Honestly, you were a diversion for him- away from his problems with his wife and other problems.


'But please let me remind you....both of us were in very unhealthy relationships'


That makes it o.k.? If you are in an unhealthy relationship, you either improve it or leave. You don't develop another one.


You need to get a straight answer from him. Right now he is enjoying the benefits of both a marriage and a girlfriend.


iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Fri, 11-21-2008 - 2:38am
The affair became a reality and now he had to deal with real life issues with you instead of skipping along happily in dream land.
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 11-21-2008 - 1:27pm

Welcome to the board ames2008,


You are allowing him to have