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why is he controlling
| Thu, 11-20-2008 - 10:50pm |
so me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 months and since then he controls my every move.... im only 18 and
| Thu, 11-20-2008 - 10:50pm |
so me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 months and since then he controls my every move.... im only 18 and
Caitlin, he controls you because a) he's a control freak and b) because you allow it.
I'd lay money that the whole reason he's with you (as someone so much younger than him) is because the women his age are wiser and won't tolerate his behaviour.
That aside, at only two months in...with three breakups...and cheating you can't possibly love him. Sure, you may have strong feelings and lust, but it's not love.
What do your friends and family think of this situation? If you were my daughter or friend I'd be telling you to run for the hills.
Don't make the mistake of thinking you can change him.
>>You are 18 and shouldnt be subjecting yourself to a relationship like that because you are too young to know how to handle it (no offense). <<
Sugarbaby, I agree with what you write. However, I want to add that no woman...of any age....should be subjecting themselves to a relationship like this. Whether a woman is 18 or 48, she should dump a controlling man.
Welcome to the board i_love_him,
I highly recommend you go back to living with your mom and work on your self-eteem.