Nothing on my bday?

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-02-2008
Nothing on my bday?
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Wed, 11-26-2008 - 10:48am

Well I have been seeing this man for 1 year and 3 months now and I do all that I can for him, I give him rides when he needs it, I buy him things, I pay for stuff, he asks and I usually get it or do it. He is sweet and caring to me as well but clearly I am the one that does more in the "relationship". Well I picked him up from his house and took him to work last night and he didn't mention my birthday or anything at all, he did tell me that he didn't need a ride on Wednesday because he has to go into work early around 7pm and he would be ok in getting there. I drove home upset because I am not going to see him on my birthday. So about 1am this morning (26th is my bday, today) and he sent me a text that said goodnight and hope you have a a HAPPY B-DAY, I responded and said goodnight, thanks. So, that is the last that I have heard from him today. Here is my thing, his bday was on Halloween and I gave him 2 gifts (expensive) and then took him out for his bday about 3 days after his bday to dinner and spent $102 to a place of his choice. The thing is,

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2004
Wed, 11-26-2008 - 1:01pm

Last year on your birthday the two of you had only been together for three months, so you probably didn't expect much in the way of celebration, and maybe Christmas was the same.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 11-26-2008 - 1:47pm

Here's your other posts so others can catch up on your situation:


Do I back away?


He is WAY too confusing?!?!


Have the other issues been resolved?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2008
Wed, 11-26-2008 - 1:53pm
I'm very confused. You wrote two posts last month, one post you said you were together for 9 months and the other, only a few days later it bumped up to 10 months. Now, a month later, you've added an additional 5 or 6 months to the relationship. This is very strange to me.












I will never look back and wonder "what if".



I will never regret what I've done because, although I've made mistakes, I'll never have to wonder what it would have been like.



I will never let my one true love get away and regret what could have been. Everything that is worth having is going to be hard. We will cry and sometimes feel like we don't know what to do

anymore but we'll get through everything that comes our way because we're doing it together.









I will die with no fear because I'll know I lived a great life with you and that I did what I feel is the basis of true happiness: love someone with every emotion I have.



I will wake up every morning knowing that one day I will never wake up and this will allow me to enjoy everything I do now.




3 years of bliss





3 years of bliss

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Wed, 11-26-2008 - 8:46pm
Give yourself a gift this birthday - break up with him.