after 4yrs he dismiss me for a rumor .

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Registered: 11-28-2008
after 4yrs he dismiss me for a rumor .
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Fri, 11-28-2008 - 7:43am
after yrs. he dismiss me for rumors he heard,but is with another woman days after the disagreement and spender a night with her at the same place we normally stay at.
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Registered: 08-21-2005
Fri, 11-28-2008 - 9:07am
Its unfortunate that after 4 years he blew the relationship off so easily. Its obvious he was looking for an 'out' so he could be with someone else. I think you should ignore his calls and move on and don't look back! You deserve so much more than what he gave you. Its hard after you have a history together but he treated you unfairly and I think it would take an awful lot to earn your trust back.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 11-28-2008 - 3:26pm

Welcome to the board loveless2008,


I wouldn't answer his calls either.


Here's some good articles from the Breaking Up is Hard to Do board:


How to Get Over Your Breakup - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=21185.1



Relationship Grieving Process - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=22985.1


Zen of Doing Nothing - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=21173.1





iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Fri, 11-28-2008 - 4:32pm

Loveless, I imagine he was going to break up with you and this gave him the excuse.

Move on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Fri, 11-28-2008 - 6:34pm

If he just dismisses you because of a rumor and doesnt weigh in the 4 years you spent together then he is not a faithful, loyal person who should be by your side. they used to call these people fairweathered friends.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
Sat, 11-29-2008 - 8:33am
It wasn't because of the rumor, it was because he wanted to be with someone else and needed an excuse.