in need of some help :(

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2008
in need of some help :(
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Fri, 11-28-2008 - 8:09am

i'v been with my partner for 5 years , we both have 2 kids ( both sets grown his is 22 and 19 and mine 21 and 18 )


we have both grown up very differently,

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 11-28-2008 - 11:57am

Welcome

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2008
Fri, 11-28-2008 - 12:42pm
i need to know if i'm doin the rite thing ?????????
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 11-28-2008 - 3:29pm

Welcome to the board sally-a-k,


You want to know if you are doing the right thing about what?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-2008
Sat, 11-29-2008 - 10:22am

sorry .... yes if i stay in the relationship or do i leave it ? .


the thing is i'm in the middle of both of them ( my partner and my kids ) i love them both dearly and don't want to give either of them up .


but me and my partner are always rowing bout my kids ......... and yes some of what he say is rite , but he can't see where i'am or my kids are coming from.


i addmit my kids hav faults like any other kids ......... but they hav only ever had me .......and me them .


like i say he has had different and so has his kids till 5years ago when there mum walked away .

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Sat, 11-29-2008 - 1:42pm

Read the book: Relationship Rescue, by Phil McGraw


Also, do your children live with you?