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| Mon, 12-01-2008 - 1:55pm |
Hello everyone,
I have been having a problem with my boyfriend that I would like some advise on.
| Mon, 12-01-2008 - 1:55pm |
Hello everyone,
I have been having a problem with my boyfriend that I would like some advise on.
I don't think you have the right to treat him as guilty until proven innocent. What else does this guy need to do to gain your trust? When someone has acted faithfully to you and you still don't trust them, then the lack of trust is a problem on your shoulders. I don't know how else to tell you to "get over it" in a way that is sensitive and will change your mind. I have males I talk to online whom I've "befriended" while playing games or through other people online. They're just people to talk to and interact with while you're sitting at a computer.
"I just don't understand why he feels he needs to have online female friends."
Does every friendship and acquaintanceship have to be out of necessity? He's not doing it to make a point, he talks to her because she's there and they share an interest. Because I have absolutely no evidence to the contrary I believe what he's doing is not at all a threat to your relationship.
What efforts have you made to take responsibility for your own lack of trust and try to understand his point of view?
Welcome to the board Brandi,
Why don't you trust him?
Carrie
....."And my mom points out that I have guy friends that I talk to online.
That's what it means to you.