HELP-Committment issues stopping him !!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-14-2005
HELP-Committment issues stopping him !!!
3
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 10:24pm

Hmmm,


Really could use your advice- Ok it's been about 8 months since I last wrote and if I look at those messages-the story almost seems the same.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-30-2008
Wed, 12-03-2008 - 11:38pm

He is losing interest for whatever reason.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 12:17am

I don't think it's commitment issues. Instead, I think the relationship has simply run it's course and he's loosing interest in you.

Time to move on.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Thu, 12-04-2008 - 3:44pm

Welcome to the board greenie_72,


Stop going to his place on weekends, without a pre-set 'date' as in he asked you out and planned a date. Don't go to his house to watch him sit on the sofa and read a book.


You don't have to shut him out of your life, but get busy with your own life and have fun.


You might find this interesting reading:


Why Did He Lose Interest? - http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlbreaking&msg=22668.1