Can you gain someone's INTEREST back??
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Can you gain someone's INTEREST back??
| Thu, 12-04-2008 - 8:24pm |
Hi folks,
OK I just posted yesterday under the title HELP-Committment is holding him back...A lot of you gave great information and basically said that I should either dump him or get REALLY busy and not return very few of his calls.

I don't know the full details of this situation, but there are many guys who love the chase. When you are involved with others, they are completely interested in you. It's the challenge of winning you that they love, not you. Once they win the person, interest often wanes. There is nothing anyone can do with a person who has this pattern, unless you want to keep playing games for your entire relationship. This kind of person is not interested in a relationship, but in the challenging of capturing someone.
Seven months is a long time. Why not move on, fill your life with good friends and activities you enjoy. Focus on all you have to give, how worthwhile you are, and go out there and find someone who cares for you because you are you. Games aren't relationships, they're games.
Best wishes,
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Please just add to your original thread and you will get more responses
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlrelationsh&msg=31778.1&ctx=0
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlrelationsh&msg=31761.1&ctx=512
Edited 12/11/2008 11:23 am ET by ciao__gina