How to make her smile??
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How to make her smile??
| Tue, 12-09-2008 - 11:56am |
I have a guy friend who has a girl friend and he has upset her over something which was very important to her.He is worried and scared.wants to do something to bring his gf's smile back as she has gone into sad mode.He is beating himself up and believes its him who has made her lose her smile.Any ideas as to what he can do ?
P.S Please dont ask me to get out of them,its their R , etc etc. like i was told earlier.It is my business to help a friend out when i know that they really love one another and a miss-understanding should not break them up.
Thanks.

When a person is sad, sometimes it's up to them to find a way to let the sadness go. If your friend has apologized and told her he loves her (and if he means it), then let him ask her what it is she needs to feel better again. She knows and perhaps she will tell him. Then he can know what to do.
However, perhaps she is sad because of deeper issues in the relationship which need to be worked on. If this is the case, it would be valuable for both of them to see a couple's counsellor and get some professional help on dealing with what it is that causes so much upset.
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Welcome to the board zubin2008,
If it were only so simple that making her smile again would erase what he's said or done. It doesn't work that way.
Well, obviously they need to discuss this misunderstanding or disagreement.
Thanks to all.
cl-itwinflame, your reply ,as always hits off best!
I am going to see him today and try to guide him in the best possible way.
eggbert, he is feeling guilty but is not on a mission.I guess he believes since he did 'that'( i am not being specific as to what happened) its his responsibility to make it right and i think he is right.he is taking responsibility of his part and the effect it had on his girlfriend.
thanks to all again.the insight is greatly appreciated.