What is HIS problem??? (Long)

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2003
What is HIS problem??? (Long)
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Mon, 12-15-2008 - 1:49pm

I hate this because I have to unload so many things that require so many details!

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-15-2008
Mon, 12-15-2008 - 1:56pm
I am confused. If you are married why is he loaning you money to pay bills? And why is he upset that you are spending money on the kids for christmas when they are his stepkids? You are right I don't know him or you but from what you have said he sounds extremely selfish and borders on using you. I can't give you an answer on what you should do but I would suggest counseling. If he doesn't agree to couples counseling make sure you go by yourself then because you can't keep going like this.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2003
Mon, 12-15-2008 - 3:34pm

I'm looking into counseling... for me at least for now and go from there.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2003
Mon, 12-15-2008 - 10:38pm

I'm sorry, but I agree that when you don't have money to spend, you SHOULDN'T spend it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2003
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 11:24am

Well..

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-13-2008
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 4:46pm

Are the children his??????

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-28-2003
Tue, 12-16-2008 - 5:00pm

My kids are from a previous relationship.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-16-2003
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 2:57am

I'm sorry Mummsie, but this isn't HIS problem.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 2:28pm

Welcome to the board mummsieof3,


Is marriage counseling an option?





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Registered: 05-28-2003
Thu, 12-18-2008 - 11:15am

Yes... Infact I emailed our pastors daughter in law and asked if they offered counseling through the church.