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Tell me to get over it, please!
| Mon, 12-15-2008 - 5:02pm |
Hi Ladies,
I am engaged to a wonderful man, and, overall,
| Mon, 12-15-2008 - 5:02pm |
Hi Ladies,
I am engaged to a wonderful man, and, overall,
Welcome to the board nasuseam,
::we had said that we weren't going to see other people, but had NOT said that we loved each other yet.
You both agreed not to see other people and he went out to see her, to catch up, got drunk and had sex.
I agree with the poster above, yes he did cheat early in the relationship and I also agree that this shouldnt be a "deal breaker". I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and im not shure on his part but during the first couple of months of our relationship I did cheat on him (not sex / fooling around) but mearley kissing someone else, but I would never in my life think of doing that again because he is now my life. I guess early on in a relationship yes people do cheat sometimes but after they have committed and do truley love eachother than they wont do it again.
Well thats how I see it anyways.. good luck!
Dear Nasuseam:
You are allowed to have feelings about his getting drunk and sleeping with an ex after he met you, especially if you were already sleeping with him at the time. Things like this can be warning signs of what's to come, but all of his behavior since seems to point to the contrary. If everything else has been wonderful and you love being with him, move ahead knowing that nothing is 100% certain. If something similar happens in the future, you'll deal with it then. All you can do is trust your gut and not beat yourself up for having feelings about this incident.