Marriage trouble.

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Registered: 08-14-2006
Marriage trouble.
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Wed, 12-17-2008 - 11:28am

I have been married for 8 months...We have a baby together who is almost 2, and we've been together for a total of almost 5 years.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 11:43am

When there is so much upset, anger and lack of trust it is difficult to have good sex in a marriage or good anything. It is clear that what is needed here is for both of you to get into good marriage counseling. He has to face the fact that he has a problem and has been behaving inappropriately. If he wants the marriage to last, he must deal with this in a mature, responsible way. If he won't, then you go for help, to work on your feelings and to receive support and guidance in making healthy choices for yourself.


Best wishes,

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 2:57pm

Welcome to the board mzieckler,


I agee with you, you should not have gotten married.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Wed, 12-17-2008 - 6:21pm
From what you posted it is apparent that he is not satisfied in a monogamous, exclusive relationship - married or not.