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still in love with ur ex
| Thu, 12-18-2008 - 9:07pm |
him a 36 year old female who is currently in a relationship. I was with my ex for 8 years. recently he came by to see me. i no he stills loves me. an i do him very much. he is in a relationship with someone an so am ii here threw mutual friends that he still talks about me. what do i do?

Why are you in a relationship if you aren't over your ex?
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Lianne, proud mummy to baby Joshua, born 24/11/08
Welcome to the board luvoflife617,
If he's in a relationship then that means he's off-limits and unavailable.
Well, if you both are still in love with each other, and are sure about this, then you need to deal with it. First, you should both make sure that you are not running away from your present relationships, not dealing with something that is bothering you there. But if you are sure you do want to be together again, then perhaps the fair thing is for both of you to let your partners know. Break off the relationships you are in and get back together again. I know this is never as simple as it sounds. If there are children with the new relationships, of course, that is something else.
If it is complicated, or if either of you are married, speak to a counselor to help with working all of this out.
Best wishes,
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