don't want to end it

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Registered: 08-24-2008
don't want to end it
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Mon, 12-29-2008 - 9:40am
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Tue, 12-30-2008 - 11:41am

Welcome to the board nocluewhatimdoing,


I think the first mistake you are making right now is assuming that your pregnancy is changing your relationshipj with him and as a result letting it affect your feeling about your unborn child. What you need to do is ask him what is going on and why he is acting the way he is. Don't assume that you know what is going on inside his idea.


It sounds like both of you really need to work on your communication. Would it be possible for you to get on the same shift again? Also would counseling be an option.


If you are having all these problems before the baby is born, it is only going to get worse afterswards. I think you need to work long and hard on getting this fixed before the baby comes and you resent it.