why guys are all like that?
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| Fri, 01-02-2009 - 11:09pm |
I'm a 26 yr old amatuer part time singer. I consider myself not bad looking. i sing at different places, restaurants, casinos, weddings and bday party sometimes. I had a few relationships in the past, nothing worked out so i kinda just gave up, wanna just focus on work and singing and hang out with friends.
So in September i got hired to sing at this one girl's 18 yr old bday party. I certainly wasn't gonna look for anybody there. 18 yr old girl's bday party? I was thinking probably majority of the people there would be around that age group. anyways, as the night goes my band members told me this one guy kept looking at me the whole time. then i started to notice him and found him young looking too so i didn't really care. When we were about to be done, this guy came up to me and said good job you sang very well. I thanked him and turned back around to talk to my band mates. He then came back to me again after a couple minute and asked for my phone #. i asked, "how old are you?" He said he's 25. at least that's what i heard, so i was thinking to myself hey why not, we can be friends, he's not a kid.
ever since that day the guy started calling me everyday. He said he's crazy about me, i'm pretty and he can't wait to be with me bla bla bla. Then i also found out he was only 21. at first i didn't want to have anything to do with him but he sounded so sincere so i started to fall for him. he took me to see his parents and they love me. i got attached alittle a month into this but he started to change. I found out he's a very uncaring person, swears alot and totally don't care about me at all. It's like sometimes when he said he's gonna call me back, he either don't call back until the next day or fell asleep alot. i know he wasn't cheating. the thing is he'd rather stay home he is too lazy to come see me.

The "good guy" in the beginning was just an act.
Why some people just take in a relationship but not willing to give? i could never figure this out.
You'll never know the answer to those questions and it's a waste of your time trying to figure those things out.
::Why some people just take in a relationship but not willing to give?
There can be a bunch of reasons for this - the way they have been raised, they found it works best for them, they are self-centered and self-focused - at 21 he's playing games.
::Why did he lose interest in me so fast?