Help! My husband can go days without sex
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Help! My husband can go days without sex
| Sat, 01-03-2009 - 4:04pm |
I need serious help. My husband and I just got married in 2008 and have been living together since September when I relocated to NC because he's a Marine. I am so frustrated because he can go days without having sex. Today is 1/3 and the last time we had sex was Christmas Eve - 12/24. We have discussed this before - he offered in a discussion we had one day the he does not want me to think he does not love me just because we don't do 'it' a lot. He said that he is often just tired from his crazy schedule. But my question was what about weekends. He can spend a whole weekend playing video games - I feel like if he has time and energy for that then he should have time and energy for me. I feel like I am not a priority at all. I feel like even if he is tired his desire for me should be stronger. I have never had this problem in the past - and what frustrates me is the person that I love the most and am spending the rest of my life with has this issue. I brought it up one time again and it just lead to things being really awkward and then we just ignored it.

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Edited 1/4/2009 12:45 pm ET by peaceyma
Have you ever suggested watching
If it's porn, that's a tough one, especially if he's unwilling to include you and share that with you so that the two of you can be intimate.
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