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Problem with girlfriend and weed
| Mon, 01-05-2009 - 3:45am |
Ok so I've been dating this girl for almost 16 months now and I love her to death, I just have been thinking about the past lately. About 7 months into our relationship my girlfriend told me she had been smoking pot behind my back even though she knew i did not like it. This really hurt me because i just don't like the thought of her doing that, it just puts pictures into my mind that i don't like, like her smoking the weed out of a bowl, and how she probably acted and looked while on it. She told me she had been doing it for about two months behind my back. So we got this worked out and a few days ago i brought it up again. I told her how i still feel hurt that she did that to me and she freaked out saying how horrible she felt and all that, and i understand that. What i didn't understand was when i asked if she missed doing it and she said yes. That stuff almost tore our relationship apart and now shes saying she wishes i would let her do it, and she acts like I'm the bad guy when i just really care for her a lot and don't like her doing that stuff. While we were fighting about this she told me some stuff that she didn't tell me before, like how she used to go over to her friends and smoke it with her in the morning so she could do it without me knowing when i came to see her that afternoon. this just hurt me so much that she went to that extent to smoke weed just so i wouldn't find out. When i met her she said she didn't like weed, and now she says she misses it, i wish i could change her mind and get her back on my side on this. if anyone can help i would greatly appreciate it and if you need clarification on anything or want more detail or info just let me know and I'll fill you in, thanks.

Welcome to the board shykli2490,
Sorry but of course she misses it.