Plz Help!!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2009
Plz Help!!!
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Mon, 01-05-2009 - 3:04pm
Ok...Let me give everyone the 411!! Ok, Im 23 and
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-11-2006
In reply to: sxymama3786
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 3:18pm

'This isn't the first time this has happened. It always seems like when things start to get great between us he backs off.'


Don't do this to yourself or your kids. This guy doesn't want a relationship which is why you have known him for so long and nothing has happened.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-13-2008
In reply to: sxymama3786
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 3:47pm

I agree with the other advice. A person in your position, young single mom, needs a man who is CONSISTENT, RESOLUTE, and COMMITMENT-MINDED. This guy is not that.

Let him back off for good, this guy isn't consistent enough for you or your life.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
In reply to: sxymama3786
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 5:05pm

sxymama, he got caught up in the fun and excitement of the evening. He's not looking for a relationship with you.

Don't feel bad for misunderstanding....it took me a very long time to learn that affection from a guy doesn't mean that he wants a relationship ;-)

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: sxymama3786
Mon, 01-05-2009 - 11:38pm

Welcome to the board sxymama3786,


He's not ready to be in a relationship, sorry.