having an affair

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Registered: 01-12-2009
having an affair
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Mon, 01-12-2009 - 12:47pm
can a married man who claims to have a happy marriage but because of career choices doesn't live in the marital home 2 different states
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Registered: 01-07-2009
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 12:58pm

Yes, sure.

But consider that his marriage is probably happy for him BECAUSE he gets to have sex with two women.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 1:24pm

It sounds as though he might be quite lonely, living apart from his family as much as that. Living alone so much certainly would open him to the possibility of seeking warmth and closeness with someone close by.


Best wishes,

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Registered: 08-07-2007
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 2:34pm

Oh yes! That is exactly why some men have affairs, just because they can.

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Registered: 08-30-2008
Mon, 01-12-2009 - 8:04pm

"simple as that? because he can? "


Answer....yes.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 01-13-2009 - 1:04am

Hi flygirl2009,


I just wanted to welcome you to the board as you've gotten some reponses to your question already.