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is it ok to kiss another women
| Wed, 01-14-2009 - 2:21pm |
My husband and I have been married for 22 years we have 4 children, we have always had a good marriage but he has always been a drinker.

No it's not okay for him to touch another woman in a way that hurts you.
He feels badly about it, well that's a start. It means he knows what he did was wrong. Hopefully he has promised never to get that drunk again.
This wound is still fresh, it has only been two weeks - I don't blame you for finding this difficult to get over. You might want to start thinking of ways he can make you feel better in the meantime so you can get past this.
Welcome to the board dianac2009,
It wouldn't be ok with me.
Get past it. If he's been a good husband and father and you have a good marriage, be grateful for that. He was drunk at the party. It happened. He didn't have an affair with her. It was a slip. Why would you dwell on it and blow it up and make it worse than it is? Why would you want to ruin a good relationship? Look and see what it is in you that makes it so hard for you to forgive this? As I see it, forgiveness is in order and you should find out why you are unwilling to offer it.
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It is NEVER okay for him to kiss another woman or dance that close with another woman ...ever.
He cheated on you and since he was so drunk (I never believe that they dont "remember") that he just didnt care.
No, I'm not baffled. It seems like good advice to me.
In my words....kissing another woman is not OK. But my husband could do a lot worse than kiss someone else. I'd look to the postives in the marriage and work towards getting past it.
Edited 1/15/2009 1:33 am ET by true.blue.strine