confused re fiance and alt.com
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| Wed, 01-21-2009 - 11:00am |
I thought I put a post out yesterday, but can't see it today so forgive if this comes out twice. I emailed re my fiance who I found out had a profile on ALT.com. I confronted him yesterday with a printout of the web page and he totally denies he did it. I told him it was linked to his email - he says, so - these places can create profiles and then email u with passwords so it looks like you created it.
Then he proceeded to tell me I just didn't know computers well enough. I showed him where in his email account that he doesn't use much, no message was clicked read except the one that gives his alt password. He adamantly denied clicking it, saying well you must have done it, or the cyberdetective you hired it, clicked it. I said no, they don't go into emails.
Then he said, well I think we need to postpone the wedding. I'm so tired of you not trusting

Many men when confronted with the truth will deny, deny, deny. Your gut tells you that you know it is the truth but they try to convince you otherwise. It makes you start second guessing your instincts.
I would say more than likely he did set it up; however, it seems like the problems in your relationship run much deeper than this.
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Here's your previous post (the only one I could find on this board):
He has obviously come to the point of denial where he has actually convinced himself that his lies are true.
You were given some good advice in your last thread (mostly, to leave and never look back). I hope you follow it.