Was it a Date? :)

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Registered: 01-07-2004
Was it a Date? :)
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Sun, 08-07-2005 - 4:17pm

Okay - so I met a guy out one night at a gathering of mutual friends. We ended up talking and exchanged numbers the next week via email. He invited me out to a party one night which I couldn't attend so I invited him out to a party another weekend. He came and we had a great time talking for hours.

The next weekend we met up for a movie that we both wanted to see and followed it up with dinner. We ended the evening with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. He asked me out the next day for dinner the following week.

Um - were these dates? :) I feel so stupid asking, but we never said they were and we haven't kissed at all. It's almost like really good friends hanging out to see if it could go further.

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Sun, 08-07-2005 - 4:57pm

Did he pay for dinner?

Sheri

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Sun, 08-07-2005 - 5:11pm
Yes, Sheri :) He paid for dinner. In fact, I wasn't sure if it was a date so I tried to pay for my half and he just laughed. :) Then I felt stupid, thinking I may have insulted him!!
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Sun, 08-07-2005 - 5:19pm

Cool ;-). Then I think it's more likely than not that he thought of it as a date. Plus, the fact that he called and asked you out again for dinner next week...if he were just thinking "friends", he probably wouldn't have called so soon and asked you to do something so soon.

Hopefully he'll kiss you next time so there will be less doubt!

Sheri