What happpened NOW

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Registered: 07-31-2005
What happpened NOW
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Wed, 08-10-2005 - 9:34am

Maybe the girls here can again interpret what happened to me NOW.

I met a 32-yr-old woman (7 yrs older than me) at a party where she gave me good body language. I approached her and we talked for about 20 min, she seemed excited. At the end, she coyly said, "Um, what's your sign?"

Now, any female who asks "What's your sign?" is interested, right?

I called her yesterday to set up a coffee date. The first time she didn't pick up, so I tried again. After initial "Hi"'s, I suggested we get together. She seemed surprised and taken aback. "Get together? Where?" I suggested a coffee place in her area, for tomorrow. She asked, "Why, what's the rush? You need to tell me something urgent?"

I didn't expect this so I backpedalled, "Well, I'll be out of town this weekend, so this week is good for me."

She said "I don't know, can I call you back?" I said OK. Then she called me back and said, "I really don't know, I'm kinda sick... maybe in the daytime? Don't know."

I took this as a No and said "Well, you have my number if you want to contact me again."

Question: What happened?! Did I do something? Or was she never interested? Thanks ladies

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Registered: 08-03-2005
In reply to: genedc
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 9:41am
so i assume she gave you her number since you had it. She sounds like a nutjob, i wouldnt call her again. you didnt do anything wrong. I dont know what her deal is, lol
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Registered: 07-03-2005
In reply to: genedc
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 10:02am
sounds like she might have a hard time coming up with an excuse to get out of the house and away from hubby and kids with such short notice. I'd suggest moving along little puppy! Sorry!
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Registered: 07-31-2005
In reply to: genedc
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 10:09am

She's single, never married, lives with roommate.

Yes, we exchanged biz cards so I had her number.

I agree she may be a nutjob, just wanted to confirm

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: genedc
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 10:25am

She sounds a little odd, probably surprised that you actually called (b/c a lot of guys just collect numbers), and pretty rude (IMO) for not actually following through.

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Registered: 03-28-2003
In reply to: genedc
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 11:36am
Maybe she is TOTALLY into astrology and when you told her your sign she thought to herself "OH NO! I am SO NOT compatible with that sign!!!" but she didn't want to be rude so she didn't say it aloud. Iri
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Registered: 07-03-2005
In reply to: genedc
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:34am

Hey... I have some ocean front property in Arizona I need to sell - you intereste?

I understand you are just passing on what she told you - but you JUST met this girl - don't rule out all the possibilites! My feeling is - my excuse is better than... "hey, she's not interested in you!"!?!?!

Good luck!