feeling upset

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Registered: 08-03-2005
feeling upset
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Thu, 08-11-2005 - 8:38am
so that guy still hasnt called...I feel like if he were a decent guy he would called by now. Last week he didnt call me (text me) till Thursday, so there's a chance he could still call, but i dont know. My gut feeling is that he wont. I know there's never a guarantee for guys to call back esp after only hanging out 2 times, but i always seem to get 'attached' and think about the ones who dont call. Very frustrating. I dont mean to sound conceited, but i'm cuter than this guy! I know looks arent everything but geez...and he was the one who pursued me in the beginning saying he remembered meeting me months back. I mean even if he does call, it's clear he's 'not that into me' otherwise he'd have called sooner. Personally if i were a guy i wouldnt ask for a girl's number if i wasnt that into her...just seems like a waste of time.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:44am

Molly you really need to move on.

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Registered: 09-01-2004
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:45am
I will second that emotion.
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Registered: 08-03-2005
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:47am
well moving on is easier said than done. I just feel hurt. I'm trying not to, but i am. I just really keep being attracted to jerks.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:52am

No, really it's not.

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Registered: 07-03-2005
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 10:58am

it IS easier said than done but it IS possible - tons have done it and not died! :D

Seriously chickadee - sounds like this is more internal/self-imposed than a reaction to this doofy guy!?

I know what it's like to be sad over a dumb guy but... be sad for an evening and then pick yourself up and realize HE is the one that's missing out - you're off and away to find a new and improved model! :p

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Registered: 08-03-2005
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:07am
yeah i guess its not him...it's more me wondering what is wrong with me. I hung out with him twice. I guess i feel like, how many times is this going to happen again...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 11:50am

It sounds like some counseling to work on your self-esteem issues would be helpful. You might want to seek out a therapist who does cognitive behavior therapy, as that is geared towards not allowing your emotions to dictate your behavior or actions.

Sheri

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Registered: 09-01-2004
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 12:57pm
Again, I agree 100%
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Registered: 09-01-2004
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 12:58pm
This is going to keep happening until you do some work on yourself.
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Registered: 08-03-2005
In reply to: molly311
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 1:00pm
I geuss i've always taken rejection hard from guys. I remember in college getting really upset about a guy not calling. I cried to my roomate adn she wrote on her screensaver, guys dont say you're gonna call if you're not gonna call! it was great having a support system like that...i dont really have that anymore. Anyhoo...that guy DID end up calling, lol. I feel dumb for feeling this way over one guy i dont really even know. I could end up hating him for all i know...but it's just really gotten to me that he hasnt called

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