Tips on How to Attract Cute Single Guys

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Registered: 08-26-2005
Tips on How to Attract Cute Single Guys
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Fri, 08-26-2005 - 6:15pm

Most of us walk around caught up in our own thoughts. We don't look at people as we walk down the street and we have the radio blasting in the car so we don't even notice those single, sexy individuals in the cars next to us.

Tip #1 Get out of your head and into your environment.

Instead of saying that there aren't any available guys out there, why not take your head out of your book at Barnes and Noble and notice if anyone is noticing you?

There are probably plenty of attractive men out there dying to ask you out. Your body language may be part of the reason why they don't.

Tip #2 Have open body language. This means no crossed arms. No hiding behind books. No hunching your shoulders.

Tip #3 Make eye contact. Instead of looking down when a cute guy looks at you, meet his gaze. The right eye contact can be sexier than the hottest verbal conversations.

Tip #4 Smile more. Studies have proven that a smiling face is thought to be friendlier and more attractive than someone who goes around with a tight jaw. Relax your jaw and allow your lips to be at least partly parted at all times. Notice the difference in how many more people smile, look your way and approach you.

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Registered: 07-05-2005
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 2:58am

What if these cute sexy guys are attached?

Then what? Should we pursue them anyway in hopes their girl is fat or has bad skin or has an overbite or grew up in a trailer?

All is fair?
Men are not honest.

I say let them pursue us. Maybe they should turn their music down.

Kris

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Registered: 08-30-1999
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 7:03am

Maybe you aren't familiar with ivillage boards, which are full of women complaining about the lack of men and asking for ideas on how to meet men. The original poster was offering suggestions. You say women should be passive and let men pursue them. The original poster was not saying women should pursue men, but that they should be open and receptive to men pursuing women.

"Men are not honest." *Insert giant eyeroll*

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Registered: 02-29-2004
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 1:55pm

If there's one thing I'm good at, it's eye contact! Looking eye-to-eye with a person tells them that I'm open and uninhibited. It's unsettling to some. But then again, I have a feeling that's where I get my so-called "animal magnetism". As for me, finding cute single men around here will be pretty damn hard. That's only because there really aren't any. That most of the cute guys (which are few, as it is) are either married or engaged and the ones who are single are either "okay" or, if they do look good, have repulsive personalities disheartens me. But being the type of person who can "take it or leave it" when it comes to relationships makes it easy for me to say that I don't really care about finding a great guy. Anyways, I'll be saving that for November...when I go on my next vacation. This time the destination is local so I'll be less hesitant to meet a man that I might like, because often distance is a problem for me. And I'm not willing to carry on a long-distance relationship, which I don't see as "real", unless it has to do with a couple that's already spent a lot of time together "in the flesh".

But I do tend to get my nose stuck in a book at times. But, a lot of times, the kind of book I'm reading will attract attention! I guess you can say, I'm an attention-grabber (though I'm not exactly hungry for it, I welcome it). of course, my sister says she always has to find someone to "attach" herself to so she won't be alone, and that I don't have to worry about it because I'm a magnet. I'm not so sure that's true, though. At the last convention I went to, I spent a lot of time solo...although for some reason I always managed to get someone to talk to me whenever I'd start talking.

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Registered: 05-20-2005
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 11:10pm
Great advice, unfortunately most women will not follow good advice....