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Wont Commit
| Sat, 08-27-2005 - 12:42pm |
I refuse to commit to anyone. Even if it is the PERFECT man. We will date and hang out... once they get close... I distance myself from them...
Anyone else?

Girlfriend, I don't even want to date! God can have His way with my love live, or lack thereof. I've got plenty of good family and friends. The older I get, the less I find romance worth the hassle. Okay, maybe I'm a little bitter, and I'm trying to work through that, not to get back into dating, necessarily, but to be at peace with my life as a person who is single and unattached.
Cheri
starthrower68@yahoo.com
Not sure I would exactly consider it a relationship. We had been seeing each other since January. I walked away once because he bascially told me he didn't want to date, and I let it go, because his life is far too chaotic. I was going on with my life, then late in May, he calls again wanting to start things back up, attributing his earlier "disappearing act" to being moody, stressed, etc. I gave him the benefit of a doubt because we all hit those walls in our life and people grow. So I saw him in June. That night when I left to go home, he told me to call him and let him know I'd made it safely. I did, but he didn't answer and I left him a message. I didn't think too much of it because we had spent the weekend together so I didn't expect him to carry on a phone conversation. Well it's now 2 months later and I've still not heard from him. I said, ok, two times establishes a pattern of behavior in my mind, I'm finished, so long, see ya. He might call but I doubt if I respond. I'm not going back down that road.
It's not just that but all the hassles I've experienced in the dating world. I don't need to participate in anything that brings that much turmoil to my spirit. A man in my life is a luxury, not a necessity, and I can live without luxury items if they cause trouble.
Cheri
starthrower68@yahoo.com