am i too superficial?
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| Sun, 08-28-2005 - 8:28pm |
i also posted this over on the online dating forum, but i wanted to hear what you all have to say...
man, i'm such a dork! i've been talking to a guy for 2 weeks (friend wanted to hook us up) and i met him for the first time last night. we NEVER run out of things to talk about, and we had a great time, but (here's the super superficial part) he wasn't as attractive as i expected him to be (from the pictures), and he wasn't a great dresser...i always seem to be the one who doesn't find anyone who isn't SUPER "abercrombie model" attractive, attractive. but this guy is really sweet, and we had a really good time, but i found myself disappointed that he wasn't as good looking as i like. he is an attractive guy to everyone who knows him, i just feel like such a jerk! i would love for me to get over myself and just enjoy being with someone i'm comfortable with and have good conversation with-without wondering if he's "cute enough" for me. anybody ever felt like that? or am i just a supreme bitch? *sigh* by the way, i have decided that to say "uh, well,i just want to be friends" after one night of meeting would be wrong, because it would be TOTALLY based on looks. like i said, we had a great time, and maybe i should give it a shot.... any thoughts? thanks for letting me vent...!

If you are not attracted to someone, then dating them is pointless.