been hurted before

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Registered: 06-13-2004
been hurted before
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Mon, 08-29-2005 - 10:47pm
Hi all, i just need an advice. i broke up with my boy friend few years back and ever since that i push away all the guys who want to go out with me. i guess im not totally over him. now i think i falling in love with this new guy. He always make me smile and i can just be myself infront of him. but the problem is i just found out he got gf. i dont know what to do. i dont think that i able to face it anymore. i dont want to get hurt again.. pls tell me what i need to do...
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: glowi3
Mon, 08-29-2005 - 11:12pm

Is this new guy someone you've been dating?

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Registered: 06-13-2004
In reply to: glowi3
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 3:38am
he's someone i have a crush on. im thinking of telling him how i feel before i found out about the girl. i just dont know what to do. i really like him so much because he make me smile especially when im in a bad day. what do u think i should do?
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: glowi3
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 7:54am

Having a crush and being in love are two totally different things.

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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: glowi3
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 11:11am
I agree with you.
To the original poster, it hurts now, but the pain and sadness you're feeling now will be over soon.
The guy you like has a girl friend and going after him will do you no good.
Besides, karma is a beotch.
Let it go.
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Registered: 06-13-2004
In reply to: glowi3
Tue, 08-30-2005 - 8:03pm
Thanks. i feel alot better. i know what i need to do. i shouldn't be putting hope on that man beside he got a gf already. i might as well go on with my life on being single and enjoy it while i can. hehehe. thanks alot