Women being aloof
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Women being aloof
| Fri, 09-02-2005 - 12:33am |
If you heard through the grapevine that a man was interested in you, would you become aloof around him? Would this mean you were completely uninterested or completely shy/nervous?
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For me it would depend on if I knew I was also interested.
>There are billions of women in the world and each
>one is a unique individual; each one would respond
>in her own, individual way
And I will ask each and every one of them if I must, starting here. How would YOU react if you found out a man you casually knew was interested in you?
Shy,
This is confusing. If countrygrlupnorth (where is your signature???) ignores me it means she is madly in love with me and wants to have all of my children. If you ignore me it means I repulse you! There are Billions of women either madly in love or completely repulsed by me :-(
If I found out a man was interested in me, I would act aloof if I was not interested in him, and didn't want to encourage him in any way. there needs to be a book along the lines of "She's just not that into you," for men.
Edited 9/2/2005 11:32 am ET ET by bpang70
Edited 9/2/2005 11:35 am ET ET by bpang70
>If I found out a man was interested in me I would act
>aloof if I was not interested in him, and didn't want
>to encourage him in any way
I find this very strange. A woman acting herself would suddenly act differently with a man she is not interested in after she finds out he is interested in her. BUT, if a woman is interested in a man, she thinks she needs to act differently to herself in order to make him interested in her! I read it here all the time “What can I do to make him like me?”
If I weren't interested in him, I'd ignore him or just be platonic towards him and not try to lead him on.
However, let me think....
There are times when I would see a certain someone that I liked alot and I'd either a) hide from him and go another direction or I'd b)ignore him completely and kick myself later. Then if I'd see him again later, I'd smile and say hello and talk and be very friendly and flirty.
However, if I completely ignore him each and everytime I see him or I'm rather cold towards him or just platonic each and everytime I see him, then I'm not interested.
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