how to get more!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2005
how to get more!
3
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 2:31pm
Okay this may sound old fashion but I was wondering...
Back Ground Info: I have a huge crush on a co-worker/friend. We have great Chemistry and flirt like crazy. I want to at least date or be more then just friends (maybe friends with benefits and make even have a serious relationship with him).
Okay I know that I want him and he needs that I want to do something but nothing has happen. I think he likes me and I would say that we flirt pretty heavily...but I'm starting to think that I let him "get the milk for free and not buy the cow". I have let him seen down my shirt and done a couple of stupid little physcial/flirting things with him. So I was wondering if the reason why we have not hooked up is because he already seeeing everything he wants? or is it something else? could he be nervous?
I don't know! why are guys so confusing.
Help Please Should I continue being more then friendly with him or should I stop giving so many sexual window. Is he not interested?
Avatar for cfk_3
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-14-1999
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 3:34pm
If you've made it perfectly clear to him that you are interested and he has not asked you out then, I think if it were me, I would not waste my time worrying about it. Maybe he enjoys the break from work but doesn't think that the two of you are a good match where dating is concerned. You never know, he may surprise you and ask you out at some juncture but, again, I'd not waste my time.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-02-2005
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 3:40pm
yeah that's what I was kinda thinking, thank you
Avatar for cl_shywon
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-20-2003
Fri, 09-02-2005 - 7:51pm

When a guy is truly interested in dating, he'll make it known by asking you out.