I let the man of my dreams slip away

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Registered: 01-19-2004
I let the man of my dreams slip away
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Sun, 09-11-2005 - 3:01am
I met the man of my dreams a month ago. He is my mom's eye doctor and on friday he was called to work in philadelphia permatately where he used to live, when I heard he was leaving I couldn't hardly stand up and I didn't get to tell him how I felt about him or give him my address or phone number, I was going to but for some reason I couldn't. he liked me as well and he didn't tell me how he felt either but the signs were there. it's like nothing I have ever experienced before. how we met was on my birthday I made a wish in my mind to meet someone like him and the very next day I saw him, he is so Handsome and Smart,and his eyes are dark brown just like I had asked for as was his hair, he is an Indian doctor and his voice is so sexy as well, and we are the same height and he has beautiful smile,I could go on and on about him. maybe someday he will come back here again.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
Sun, 09-11-2005 - 3:56pm

I really don't want to burst any bubble, but you cannot possibly know if this man is even a good, moral person- let along the "man of your dreams" at this point!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 09-12-2005 - 9:02am

PG agrees with cl-shyone!

It's nice to fantasize about "what might have been" (taking a song cue from a group called Little Texas), but what you see on the surface can often be TOTALLY DIFFERENT from a person's actually personna.

Pianoguy

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Registered: 09-01-2005
Mon, 09-12-2005 - 11:53am
Just a piece of advice.... The man of your dreams doesn't leave without telling you how he feels. That is the one "sign" that isn't there and the one you should be looking for. Move on. He has.
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Registered: 12-27-2004
Mon, 09-12-2005 - 1:17pm

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Oh I so agree with you. I've found myself in the same exact situation as you a few years back. I liked this guy alot and was sure he liked me and when he left, I was devastated. But, when he left, he never told me good bye and before he left, I took him out for lunch where the two of us were more than alone and he had all the time to tell me how he felt but he didn't. I began to get the impression that even though he hadn't physically left yet, he had already moved on and was ready to start a new life that did not include me.
Little flags stick out as you sit back and really analyze. If this guy liked you enough, why couldn't he atleast tell you how he felt without leaving you behind?
Trust me, sweetie. It seems as though he were the man of your dreams and it all seems so romantic but in actuality, he's gone and you're still pining.
Move on.