PLAYING THE GAME?
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PLAYING THE GAME?
| Tue, 09-13-2005 - 1:21pm |
I have a 2 part question:
Here is the scenario,
I met a wonderful young lady last Friday night.
I should say that I re met her as I used to frequent this same bar years back and she was a waitress.
I did not peruse her then as I felt she was too young.
Jen is a bar tender at an establishment her sister now owns.
I thought we hit it off well for the amount of time we could talk.
The theme of the night was playboy bunnies. The entire staff was done up as play mates and the bouncers in tuxedo shirts etc.
The staff danced on the bar at midnight and Jen made her way right in front of me. To say the least she put on a GREAT show.
I gave Jen my number but she told me she bar tends on Monday nights and I should come and see her then.
I ran into a guy that said she is seeing someone.
I went in last night to see her and she all but ignored me.
I know she was busy working and I was sitting next to the co owner her sisters partner.
When I cashed out she stopped what she was doing and said, your leaving already?
I just said I had dogs at home that needed to be let out.
When she returned with my receipt she told me to be safe.
So I don't know if this is all part of the "game" of keeping someone's interest, or if she is just trying to drum up customers for her sister?
I generally do not like bars and I do not like to drink that much.
What do you guys think?
Do you think I should just ask her which it is, or continue going in and see where it goes?
Here is the scenario,
I met a wonderful young lady last Friday night.
I should say that I re met her as I used to frequent this same bar years back and she was a waitress.
I did not peruse her then as I felt she was too young.
Jen is a bar tender at an establishment her sister now owns.
I thought we hit it off well for the amount of time we could talk.
The theme of the night was playboy bunnies. The entire staff was done up as play mates and the bouncers in tuxedo shirts etc.
The staff danced on the bar at midnight and Jen made her way right in front of me. To say the least she put on a GREAT show.
I gave Jen my number but she told me she bar tends on Monday nights and I should come and see her then.
I ran into a guy that said she is seeing someone.
I went in last night to see her and she all but ignored me.
I know she was busy working and I was sitting next to the co owner her sisters partner.
When I cashed out she stopped what she was doing and said, your leaving already?
I just said I had dogs at home that needed to be let out.
When she returned with my receipt she told me to be safe.
So I don't know if this is all part of the "game" of keeping someone's interest, or if she is just trying to drum up customers for her sister?
I generally do not like bars and I do not like to drink that much.
What do you guys think?
Do you think I should just ask her which it is, or continue going in and see where it goes?

gosborne66...
Give JEN "one more night" (PG is quoting the Phil Collins/Genesis tune here). Call ahead to make sure she's working. !!! If you find out that Jen is working NEXT MONDAY...stop in again and see how long it takes for her to react to your presence. If you're completely ignored by her during the first hour, pay your bar tab and split! If she makes an effort to strike up a conversation, ask her outright if she has a boyfriend! .
If there's no b/f...ask her if she'd be interested in going out with you sometime?
She'll either give you a 'thumbs up' or 'thumbs down'---and the mystery about 'pursuing her' will FINALLY be solved!
Good Luck!
Pianoguy