what to do?

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Registered: 09-17-2005
what to do?
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Sat, 09-17-2005 - 11:13pm
Hey everyone I need advice. Theres this guy I sort of like from work. I'm afriad to ask him out because of this. If I get rejected I think it might be weird, especially since my boss schedules us to work at the same time quite frequently. The thing is, according to a friend, he likes the girl to make the move. I don't know how to tell if he is interested, or if maybe I should ask him out, how do i go about doing this?
See I was with this guy for almost 3 yrs until about 4 or 5 months ago and I was with a different guy right before that for 6 months and a different guy right before him for 1 yr-all back to back with no break-so I've been out of touch for awhile or so.
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: jfrn201
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 2:45pm

My first piece of advice is to maybe take some time off from relationships for awhile.

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Registered: 01-02-2005
In reply to: jfrn201
Sun, 09-18-2005 - 3:11pm

Hi,

I have dated 2 people that I worked with in the past & I strongly do not recommend it. Have you taken some time for just you like the other poster suggested. Do some soul-seraching & make sure you are healthy to be in a relationship.

I figured if I aguy is truely interested he will ask you out, but I did ask out the last guy I dated. I have no regrets.

Tread carefully.

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Registered: 08-27-2004
In reply to: jfrn201
Mon, 09-19-2005 - 3:27pm
Try making and having time for yourself. You have just gotten out of long relationships, it is time you do something for yourself. Best of luck :)