Gentleman or not interested?

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Registered: 09-09-2003
Gentleman or not interested?
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Wed, 09-21-2005 - 6:27am

It was my third date with this guy. We went for drinks after movie and I got a little tipsy so asked him to walk me home. He 's been to my place b4 and we did make out that night.
This time he just walked me to the door and kissed me goodnight and left.
I thought it was nice from him that he did not come in with me when I was not so sober. (I did not offer him to come in but he was too quick to say bye)
But my friend said it is a sign that he is not interested.
Is he a gentleman or simply not interested?
I guess time will tell but I m just curious for some headsup.

thnx
J.

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 7:43am

I'd say he was being a gentleman since you were intoxicated, but only time will really tell.

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Registered: 06-02-2005
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 12:25pm

>Is he a gentleman or simply not interested?

I would be inclined to say he is both. He probably isn't interested and was decent enough not to try and take advantage of you for a one-night stand.

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Registered: 04-03-2005
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 3:49pm
I think it was probably bc he didnt want to take advantage of you. But other than it seemed like he left fast, how did he behave? Did he seem like he was interested other than that? Maybe you were reading to much into this. Ask him, or wait and see
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Registered: 09-09-2003
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 1:37am
I think he was being both. We chatted today for 5 min just to say how are ya's but I initiated the chat.
Anyway its his loss kuz we really clicked the first few dates except for yesterday when he accused me of not EATING! as in EASTING DISORDER TYPE O THING



Edited 9/22/2005 1:47 am ET ET by juliara2003