5 months
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5 months
| Wed, 09-21-2005 - 8:43pm |
5 months since I broke up with my bf and not a single date-not a single guy has shown interest in me. My ex who hates leaving his house for any reason has dated 2 different people...but not a single guy has shown interest in me. Even girls that I thought I looked at least as good as have dates...I'm begining to think there is something wrong with me.

I think it is much easier for a man to find a new partner for a variety of reasons. For one, it is usually the man who initiates the conversation with another woman and the likelihood of securing a date with her increases. Another reason is that there are more single women than single men around so men tend to have more of a choice in the dating pool.
On the other hand, women tend to sit back the majority of time and wait for men to approach them and if the guy they are interested in doesn't approach them they let the opportunity slide because they don't want to seem desperate by being the one to make the first move.
My advice to you is not to feel bad just go out there and either start the whole internet dating approach or simply start being the one who goes up to a guy that you find interesting and who knows you might start getting more dates.
I tryed the whole internet thing but the only guys who would respond to me were military guys who were trying to secure a fun night when they get back from Iraq and thats not what I am looking for. And they who responded were still few in number. There were two of them and one of them started being a jerk for no reason and the other turned out to be racist.
I don't go to clubs or bars because it just seems like that would be bad news you know?