A good kick in the head

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2005
A good kick in the head
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Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:08am

Hi,

I posted that I had been dating someone. Well finally I am coming to terms with reality. Whne someone says they are not sure they want to be in a relationship...well to me that is "NO". I know it's not me. I am disappointed but I know that things will not change. I had to make the decision...hello!!!

I know this is why they call it dating but it sucks.

Taking yet another break.

Thanks everyone for your support.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2005
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:20am

Hi jstbu,

I hope you are OK. It's unfortunate but I think you did the right thing.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2005
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 10:51am

I am just a little bummed. Great...I get another friend. I am kinda of tired of that crap.

Hal...are you a male/female?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-06-2003
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 11:02am
i know how you feel, i'm trying to deal w/ the same thing as you'll c if you read my posts. It's really hard!! I hate dating too!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-02-2005
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 11:05am

>Hal...are you a male/female?

Are you saying I'm gay? (Not that there's anything wrong with it). I am male. Do I write like a woman?

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-22-2005
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 11:11am
Hi all. I am new here... going through the same struggle now... it's so hard to let go sometimes...especially when he is being a baby and not returning your calls or emails... I mean.. at least just end it!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2005
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 12:47pm

You could have been like Halle--Hal for short. I am glad you are a man...I wanted to get a man's view.

Thannks :0

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-01-2005
Mon, 09-26-2005 - 3:13pm
Hang in there. It is not fun but there is a certain amount of relief in coming to that realization. If it ever happens again, you won't have to ask, you'll know.