I wrote him a letter...& gave it to him
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I wrote him a letter...& gave it to him
| Tue, 11-22-2005 - 11:22pm |
I've been talking to this guy for about 3 months. He works at the gym I go to (he's a trainer.) He used to call me a lot. He doesn't call me as much now. I see him at the gym every other day though. He asked me out when we first met, but I said no. Hasn't asked me out since. I tried to get him to come out with me...that didn't really work :-) So I decided that I was tired of the game and I decided to write him a letter telling him how I feel. I gave it to him last night. Haven't heard anything from him yet. I'm seeing him tomorrow at the gym. Did I just make a big mistake?? What should I do??

Since you wrote the letter, whatever it may have said, there's nothing else you can do now. Just wait and see.
I think the better option would be to admit to him in person that you made a mistake when you said no and that if the offer still stands, you'd be happy to take him up on it.