Pubic hair question

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Registered: 11-23-2005
Pubic hair question
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Wed, 11-23-2005 - 5:41pm
I am dating this really great guy. He is the most polite, respectful, sexy, romantic man- BUT~ his pubic hair is OUT OF CONTROL. Body hair in general really turns me off, and when i first saw his body i didn't think anything of it. he is smooth and clean. but down south it is so nasty. his pubic hair is like 4 inches long (and straight-mind you). I don't know what to do, he is so awesome. it's a shame that i can't get past this. How do i approach him?
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Registered: 08-13-2005
Wed, 11-23-2005 - 7:56pm
Gah, awkward situation!! Basically you have to ask him to trim it for you, but in the most polite way possible. Or sex it up some way- say that you'd like to "visit" him down there but are really turned on when guys shave that area (saying trimming may not sound as sexy). That way you're telling him it's a unique fetish of yours and are putting it back onto yourself instead of pointing out the negative in him.
If he says he won't ever shave down there, then maybe ask him "how about just trimming it short?"
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Registered: 05-03-2005
Thu, 11-24-2005 - 8:22am

I've encounted the same problem in the past. I handled it by planning a very sexual night. I lit candles, turned on low music, and gave him a full body massage. Before massaging a particular part of his body, I took off that article of clothing. (When I was working on his back, I took off his shirt and my shirt)

By the end of the massage, we were both nude. At that point, when he was really relaxed, I told him that I've been told men are much more sensitive when their testicles are shaven. I told him I wanted to shave him which I did over a towel right in my bed. While I was doing that, I continued to take care of everything else. He LOVED it! It was both relaxing and sensual for him.

The next morning I told him how much I loved the night before and his new 'look' is really a turn on for me. He loved that night so much that he kept that look for the rest of the time we were together. (He might still have it for his new girlfriend for all I know).

Good luck!

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Registered: 10-27-2005
Mon, 11-28-2005 - 6:44pm
LOL..this is a funny one no offense....look it sounds to me that you two are just together for sex...so just don`t say anything to him at this point..if you THINK there will be a relationship a some point..then yes bring it up...i am surprised a man wouldn`t take better care down there,I mean it is the one important area on their bodies to them...LOL...I would be turned off...
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Registered: 11-28-2005
Mon, 11-28-2005 - 9:46pm
This had me cracking up - too funny - i can just imagine - LOL LOL - tell him that you watched a dirty movie one time and that you thought it was hot when you saw that the guy in the movie had shaved his pubic hair down really short and if he would ever do anything like that.....what's the worst he could say? If he does say no, tell him that you have rug burn from the last time ya'll did the deed.....
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Registered: 06-22-2005
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 11:21am
While he is sleeping trim it for him...
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Registered: 02-05-2005
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 4:22pm

wow. ok. try this.

i heard many years ago that a shaved private part can be extremely erotic in the area of enjoyment during intercourse. I tried it too. I shaved myself first and explored it with my then hubby(now X) who still had his pubic hair. After a few times i made the suggestion to him that maybe he could shave too and see how it felt for him to be cleanshaven in the pubic area(i even did this for my recent X-bf i just left a while back).
The results were unanymous. My X-hubby loved the feeling and had kept himself shaved since. My former beau, tried it once, liked it for the change, but eventually let the hair grow back in. However, he did keep it trimmed thereafter so he wasn't a bushy forest for me.

Oh...its even more erotic if YOU shave him.

luck to both of ya.

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Tue, 11-29-2005 - 11:32pm

Yeah....I can just imagine a guy's reaction to waking up during that!

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Registered: 10-27-2005
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 11:10am
if you are that grossed out then stop seeing him..it sounds real nasty anyway....and think about it..how much do you REALLy think he cares for you?let`s face it,most of the time dating someone does NOT last...and if it is just a sex thing with you 2,then either let it go,or just see someone else..and he should take better care of his appearance...to make himself sexy and desirable if he wants to get laid.