The big O

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Registered: 11-28-2005
The big O
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Mon, 11-28-2005 - 11:01pm
I was just wondering... is there a difference between a climax and an orgasm? I know I have climaxed before, but I have never felt the big "explosion" that everyone claims to feel with an orgasm. How do i know? Is there something solo i can do to experience this?
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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: lana3131
Tue, 11-29-2005 - 7:45am

They are the same thing.

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Registered: 06-02-2005
In reply to: lana3131
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 1:02pm

>Especially don't compare yourself to "professionals"
>because that's all dramatized for effect.

Are you saying I've been having sex with "professionals"??

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Registered: 04-13-2004
In reply to: lana3131
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 1:20pm
Ummm... I think she was saying that you've been watching a lot of porn.
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Registered: 11-01-2005
In reply to: lana3131
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 5:27pm

I don't think any orgasms are alike. Every single one is different. Sometimes its a little squeak, sometimes its an explosion, sometimes it doesn't happen at all.

For me sex isnt about getting the mindblowing orgasm (bonus if it does happen) every single time. I think if thats all its for then a lot of people get disappointed when it doesnt happen and then they get pissy with their SO's (and they arent even in control or in charge of it happening either)...and it cycles...does that make sense? Just enjoy whatever comes (no pun intended).

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Registered: 11-01-2005
In reply to: lana3131
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 5:28pm

Ummm... I think she was saying that you've been watching a lot of porn.

hehehe..good one! :D

Rubyshoes

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Registered: 03-20-2003
In reply to: lana3131
Wed, 11-30-2005 - 9:58pm

You're having sex?


How come we didn't know about this?